osho reduced it to two things:
people stay if they are happy
people leave if they are unhappy
so why not make people happy instead of expecting them to make you happy?
let it come from you.
besides, if you make someone happy, won't that make you happy?
it's that simple really.
when did it become so difficult?
that anyone would actually want to be defined by misery is beyond me.
i don't know why there are some who actually prefer being miserable.
forsan miseros meliora sequentur -- for those in misery, perhaps beter things will follow.
better ate, hindi bitter.
it's a good thing j gets it.
and i hope one day, you do too.
